I am approaching a crossroads of sorts at the age of 39. My high school sweetheart, Ron and I have been married since I was 18 and one week old. We have lived in Hawaii and Texas. In a little mission church in Kahaluu, HI we started going to a Baptist Church. I had grown up as a Christian. My mom was a devout Christian that studied the Bible and raised her children in a Christian home despite my dad not being a Christian. I learned alot about a difference between the view of the world from a believers perspective and a non believers perspective on almost everything through my parents.
I accepted Jesus as my savior when I was 8 and loved my church family. My Mom was so dilligent to bring us to church even though it was not what my dad wanted and made things harder for her, she sacrificed because she thought church training was so important.
At the age of 13 I was diagnosed with a form of Scoliosis that required that I wear a back brace until 16, or whenever I had stopped growing. Anyone seen 16 Candles-80′s movie where the girl that was wearing a back brace was trying to get a drink out of the water fountain at high school? That was me for 2 years. I will just say it was life changing. I did my best to keep a good attitude but my relationship with Christ is what keep me from feeling totally alone. Kids can be mean and I look kinda funny! God provided a few good friends and He reassured me daily to trust in Him and He would pull me through this.
Sure enough, I had been out of the back brace for about a year and I met a cute guy, which has been my husband for 21 years. That really wasn’t my plan but God also directed and guided us through being married at 18 and 19 years old. I am so thankful for the Godly man I am married to.
We had Katie when I was 20 and Riley at the age of 24. Another life changing event was a lovely woman that was our pastor’s wife in Hawaii took time to mentor me and send me down a path of being a submissive wife and mother that trained up her children in Christ. For that I am truely thankful for as well. I enjoyed being a stay -at- home mom until now and I have been called to Southwestern to go back to college after 20 years.
We live in Granbury in a farm house that is 100 years old. We love it, at least most of the time, it can be a little drafty.
It keeps us constantly reminded of when life was simpler and harder all at the same time. It keeps us striving to not be too indulgent of the what the world has to offer and reminding us that the hard work God allows for us is good.
Our daughter is at Texas Tech working on her masters in Occupational Therapy. Riley is in the highschool band and plays JV Baseball so we have a tight schedule. Which leaves me at the crossroads, I will be 42 and no kids at home.
We serve at our church as 3&4th grade Sunday School leaders and Youth Workers. As well as my husband leads the men’s ministry. We both feel strongly lead to encourage young families to focus on what God has for them insted of what the world is offering there families. I have no idea what God will do with the training I am receiving so I am just walking down the path He has for me trying to trust and look for the straight path and trying to enjoy the bumps too.



